Monday, December 17, 2012

I wrote this immediately after 9-11 as we all tried to wrap our heads around the whole impact of what had just happened.

I share it with you because I believe that the tragic events of Dec 14 2012 at Sandy Hook Elementary School in Connecticut are just as staggering.
20 children between the ages of 5 and 10 were gunned down in a callous, unthinkable murder – and for what – we may never know.

BUT every parent of these 20 innocent little lives suffered their own life altering, gut wrenching 9-11.
So I simply share this with you as we all grieve for these families and the beautiful little lives take from them.

 
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 Where Do We Turn From Here?                                                   Psalms 37:1-7
   Our lives have been rocked. Everything that seemed so solid has been shaken.
The twin towers of the World Trade Center. The Pentagon.
   Symbols of American strength and stability, taken out by terrorist attack. And the lives -- both those lost and those changed forever by the four homicidal jet crashes of September 11.
   Through a network of connections that unite us as families and friends and acquaintances across this country, every one of us has been affected in some real way by the devastation of that day.

   As Martin Luther King once said so well, "We are caught in an inescapable network of mutuality, tied in a single garment of destiny.
   Whatever affects one directly, affects all indirectly." And so we mourn -- mourn the fatalities and the casualties, as well as our own loss of innocence.
We have been attacked, and will never feel completely safe again.

AND  In times like these we ask questions – and it is ok to ask questions.

In fact we would not be the first to ask the hard questions of God. And He would not be God, if we could not ask Him the hard questions. And because we have a God in whom we can call ABBA, Father, because HE cares for His own -
   It's okay to ask "Why?"     Job did, even David did.

   These were men of God who were not afraid to talk with God and ask those hard questions.
Questions like…    Those from Job who cried: “I shout for help and there is not answer.”

Or, “Oh that I knew where I might find Him.” And, “I cry out to You for help, but You do not answer…”
Or from David who begged: “How long will you hide your face from me?”  And he questioned aloud… “My God, my God why have You forsaken me?”

   David even asked the question, “Why are the nations in an uproar and the peoples devising a vain thing?”

And when we find ourselves in such a place we ask many of the same questions. We may feel that God has forsaken this nation. When we experience something of this magnitude, be it a personal crisis or a national tragedy, our hearts cry out with questions. We cry out for help and listen for an answer. We like David will ask, “Where are You God?”

 We often feel that maybe God isn’t listening. Maybe we feel the need to get angry, to point a finger at God and blame. To accuse Him

But God listens. He lets His children ask the question that stone and wood cannot answer.

I wish I had all the answers for you today, I wish I could stand here today and tell you all the WHYS.     I don’t know, I too have asked the questions. I don’t have all the answers
I have a surprise for you though -  Job never got the answers, no where in the Book of Job did God answer the WHYS.  But Job knew, he knew where to turn – listen to the words of Job in chapter 42 –    
JOB 42:2-6

            “I know that You can do all things,   And that no purpose of Yours can be thwarted.   ‘Who is this that hides counsel without knowledge?’ “Therefore I have declared that which I did not understand, Things too wonderful for me, which I did not know.”   ‘Hear, now, and I will speak; I will ask You, and You instruct me.’  “I have heard of You by the hearing of the ear; But now my eye sees You;  Therefore I retract, And I repent in dust and ashes.”
New American Standard Bible: 1995 update. 1995 (Job 42:2–6). LaHabra, CA: The Lockman Foundation.

Job knew where to turn!

And in fact David did not even get answers and we may never know this side of heaven, the why or the how.  FAMILIES DO NOT let that discourage you…

   Because just as David and Job knew with all their heart…

That even though they did not have all the answers – they knew that God was all He promised. That God was the source of their strength. That God was their comforter.

    And God IS the source of our strength, God IS the source of our comfort. That God IS still alive, that God IS still on His throne and God IS still faithful to His children.

One of the questions we ask is often – “Now what?” Where do we turn now, what do we do now?” Where do we turn from here? Well, there is only one way to turn.

   At a time like this we turn to our knees. As someone has told me, “I go to my knees because I remember that there is a God and I am not Him.

   At a time like this, we turn to the ground ... to the solid ground that is our creating, redeeming, and sustaining Lord.

   At a time like this, we turn to the firmest of foundations, the mighty fortress that is our God. It's the only place of any strength and stability.

   At a time like this we turn to our church family. The unity that bears one another’s burdens.

At a time like this we turn to the comfort and saving grace found alone in Jesus Christ.

   At a time like this we turn to the very place Job and David knew to turn.

This morning take comfort in a word from God, that He does tell us where to turn.
  From Psalms 37:1-7 –

“Do not fret because of evildoers, Be not envious toward wrongdoers. For they will wither quickly like the grass, And fade like the green herb. Trust in the Lord, and do good; Dwell in the land and cultivate faithfulness. Delight yourself in the Lord; And He will give you the desires of your heart. Commit your way to the Lord, Trust also in Him, and He will do it. And He will bring forth your righteousness as the light, And your judgment as the noonday. Rest in the Lord and wait patiently for Him; Do not fret because of him who prospers in his way, Because of the man who carries out wicked schemes.”

     As the Psalmist gives instruction:
Trust In the Lord - trust in Him and do the good and honorable thing. To cultivate faithfulness in Him, that He knows what the future holds.  It is in this trust that we as children of God exhibit a faith that others will see and know that God is still God and even though we don’t have all the answers we have God. For so man of us we take that for granted… I mean this… it is printed on our money but we don’t believe it nor do it. 

Now is the time that we need to turn and trust in Him.

Delight yourself in the Lord – doesn’t that seem like a strange word for a time like this? But it really isn’t. What a joy it is to know that in a time of national chaos that God is still beside you. Don’t believe it?

Think of the miraculous stories of survivors. You want to know where God is amidst this whole thing… Take delight in this… He was in the strong hands of a police chief who rode the building down almost 85 stories and lived, He was in the sweat and tears of thousands of volunteers. He is in the blood bank as people selflessly give of themselves. He is in the Capital when men and women pray… Take Delight in the fact that He still cares.

Now is the time that we turn and take joy in Him

 Commit your way to the Lord – here in verses 5 and 6 – God says if we will turn to Him, commit ourselves and our nation to Him… He will do all that we need, He will bring forth goodness and righteousness and it will be a beacon to all.  Even in 2 Chronicles 7:14 He promises that if we will humble ourselves and pray… He will hear us, forgive us and He will HEAL this nation.

Now is the time that we turn our life and our ways to Him.
 
Rest in the Lord –  there is no better comfort when you are hurting, when you feel alone and sad than to come and rest your head on Him.  He listens. He cares. He will cry with you and He will comfort you.

When you rest your mind and body, your heart and soul will find comfort. Rest in Him and wait, because He cares for His own. There are thousands who need physical rest today, but there are millions who need spiritual rest.

Now is the time that we turn and rest in Him.

 Where Do We Turn From Here? That answer is simple… we turn fully to Him
 

For several thousands of people – Wednesday never came. Some I am sure had turned to Him already, but sadly some had not. Millions today are given the opportunity to turn to Him, they may not have tomorrow but they have today. You may not have ever turned to Him… but you can today.

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For  20 children, for 6 adults who were gunned down for no reason… Saturday never came. For their families Christmas will come but it will never be the same. I pray that all of this tragedy causes us all to stop and turn to the God who can and will comfort…

Sunday, December 9, 2012

A lady once came to evangelist Billy Sunday and tried to rationalize her angry outbursts. “There’s nothing wrong with losing my temper,” She said. “I blow up, and then it’s all over.”  “So does a shotgun,” Sunday replied, “and look at the damage it leaves behind!”

Getting angry can sometimes be like leaping into a race car, gunning the motor, going zero to 100 in 4.4 seconds and then finding out that the brakes don’t work.  We all know what anger is. We have felt it, dealt with it and suffered because of it… And when it gets out of control it turns destructive, it can lead to problems—problems at work, in your personal relationships, and in the overall quality of your life.

I would have to say that 90% of what we get angry about doesn’t really matter.
Think of the last time you got “angry.”  
Was it about something worthwhile?
Was it something that really mattered in life?
Was it simply because you didn’t get your way, something didn’t go the way you expected, or you didn’t like the person you had to deal with?
What we get angry about is – silly stuff.  Sadly too few of us get angry for the right reasons… yes, even Christians.

Some Christians even think that getting angry is a sin – but folks – getting angry isn’t a sin, what you get angry at and what you do with it… well that is a different story.

In Mark 3 verse 5 is says that Jesus got “angry” at the hardness of the Pharisees’ heart.

Jesus’ anger was what we call – “Righteous indignation.”  Indignation is anger aroused by something unjust, unworthy, mean or hard hearted.   Jesus’ anger was a combination of resentment and a broken heart.

You know… If you cannot hate what is wrong, it’s becomes questionable if you really love right.

Some people suppress anger, holding anger inside in unhealthy ways.  Some people wrongly express anger, by griping, sarcasm, rage, intimidation and blame.    

Some people become passive with anger. In a battle for superiority, passively angry people have a need to control without being transparent or open.     Some people are assertive with anger. Failure to share feelings in a constructive way may produce assertive anger.  

Everyone needs to deal with anger. Folks, you can't eliminate anger – but what you do with it can make a world of difference in your life. Jesus was one who could be angry and not sin. And He is our example.

Here are a few suggestions on how you can get - ANGRY THE RIGHT WAY! 
James 1:19-20
This you know, my beloved brethren. But everyone must be quick to hear, slow to speak and slow to anger; for the anger of man does not achieve the righteousness of God.



TALK IT OVER –James 1:19a (quick to hear, slow to speak)
     If you will simply talk to the right person (not 50 others) - approach them with kindness and an attempt and attitude to make right – then you might find that a cup of coffee and a 30 minute conversation could diffuse an irritating situation.

 THINK CLEARLY - James 1:19b-20 – Anger can blind your thought process.      
      Ill directed anger is not going to fix anything - it won't make you feel better (may actually make you feel worse). If you think clearly you see problems and situations for what they are, not what you perceive through angry eyes. James 1:20 – “for the anger of man does not achieve the righteousness of God.”

Reacting instead of responding will not achieve the Godly results.

TAKE TIME – to consider what is good and right - Philippians 4:8
     When you get unjustifiably angry you don’t see much else… you don’t seem better solutions, you don’t see the damage you might be creating… Take time to consider all the aspects this way you will make sure you are getting upset about the right stuff, not the silly stuff.  Consider the right things to do in response.

 TAKE POSITIVE ACTION - consider solutions rather than just the problem.
Anyone can find problems, anyone can get angry about anything… but Christian men and women should be those who can get angry and their anger (righteous indignation) leads to positive actions and answers – to actually DO SOMETHING.

     Jesus’ anger was a mix of anguish and compassion – BUT - His anger resulted in POSITIVE ACTION – it moved Him to do something, something positive… Shooting a doctor who performs abortions is not the proper response to the anger the procedure might produce in you… Murdering in the name of God does not lead to a very good witness.

Jesus had the power to wipe out the Pharisees, instead He used that power to heal.
You have been told “Don’t Get Mad – Get Even”  But take Jesus’ example
Don’t Get Mad– Get Right.

 Looking to His Tomorrow – living in the trenches for Him Today…

Doug

John 10:10 “…I came that they might have life, and might have it abundantly.”